Love is not sank same, and in emotional crisis, we need intelligence and reason ......< br> 1. My husband and I separated in two places, relationships in general. My heart is really very painful, I want a divorce , but I was afraid his daughter can not stand, it has been to hold on. Recently one of my male colleagues, a system that we have good relations, he was very good to me. He also has a family, I do not want what he has, but my heart always think him. I am very contradictory, and his right, felt sorry for his wife. how can I do? (I am 37) Re: If you can solve the situation of separation between the best and perhaps the most embarrassing is that you are physically can not achieve their desired requirements. If the work can not be solved, the best running two diligent point, so you can enhance the emotional bond between husband and wife, if it can not tolerate, you can choose a divorce. but never went to a married women, two families that would spread unrest.
2. My husband and I married over three years. Recent always quarrel. he has a lot of shortcomings, but I care about him, others say I was too care about him. He found a recent online chat with foreign girls. also often sent messages, phone calls, I saw not used to it got into a fight, he said several times it is not possible, but I can not believe he . You're saying how can I do. I should not believe him then? Re: marriage fight is necessary, but not to quarrel and noisy quarrels, but to quarrel with each other to promote reflection and exchange of emotions purposes. If you always complaining will only make the gap between the more and more couples, and even lead to marriage. wise woman will correct their shortcomings by arguing, and calm that her husband's shortcomings and guide to make corrections. Obviously you do not do this, hope to be able to look at marriage of reason, argument will be more harmonious than the exchange.
3. I was a character who is very aloof. because I had grown up in single parent families has never been had a mother, from the beginning I was twelve, my father regardless of whether I have, I can say is to eat hundreds of meals growing up. real life, I tasted the friendly faces, I become withdrawn and good strong character, into the community After even more so. I know her and her husband were married less than six months. In fact, I do not love him, because he who in the pursuit of my not very good in all aspects, he only primary school education, I chose him , because we feel that his temper is not very good, you should find a good in and what character I am so staunch character, it is easy and others from the conflict. just married when our feelings are very good, up to from a the BB, the fight becomes more and more. He does not like other men, like Tatu, even for a trivial matter and I have to fight a winning or losing. a quarrel for three days when we often do not say a word. And the more I do not care about, and he more confidently. of course, which also have my right, and often quarreled because of a bad mood when I spoke, I brings about face, after a fight I will not take the initiative to He spoke often is the Cold War. to have a baby from, I have not ever had a happy holiday, every time we are not arguing that the Cold War holidays. I How are you getting tired. We have just started my fight is five months pregnant time because of work reasons, I just can not continue to work pregnant, was with him home to live with her in-laws. because in the outside work habits, and all of a sudden there is no social circle, I am very lonely, and his mother and all day Diao that I do not work, at home and eat the bread of idleness, I do very upset, in fact, I would like to go to work, I am in contact with the outside, the mood will be better, but he did not agree. together with the reasons for his mother, the more we fight and more and more, until the end of last year, almost every day in the Cold War. baby four months when his mother did not agree to help us with the baby, but back home, baby now have a half years old, and his parents still did not come , I asked my parents took it with children, he does not agree. No way, I went back home with the baby spent more than a month, came back feeling like we just got married back in those days, can not to a month, they began to fight the Cold War. I do not know how to do in the end! Please help me! Re: you may wish to look at the repetitive message you gave me, you will find many issues are the sky because you know that speak for themselves handed, why not change? Since the Cold War, hell, why not take the initiative to talk to him? also her in-laws do not take care of your child's obligation, if they are willing to help you with children is your honor, if they want to easily spend their later years that is their instinct. as between husband and wife are equal, no one can tolerate a lifetime lover of yelling. you looking for a lover, not the servant. to each other a little more love, return on the other side will give you a move.
4. I was a junior female student, I love my teacher. He is a sophomore, when to teach us, young, talented, cool sense of humor. Now I have junior, and he did not teach me to have half a semester, but I find that I miss him but accumulated over time. In six months time, I could not help but see him ... ... (ellipsis some friends are trying to find opportunities to blog and teachers close to) this crush, I was tortured very hard. Re: We can have faith, we can like, admire or worship of our favorite of the opposite sex, but not us like we will be able to get, crush in my opinion, is shameful, and if love should speak out, even if the final themselves disappointed, at least their fighting for.
5. I am 21 years old, three years ago my boyfriend Love began his six years older than me, was strongly opposed to his sister brother, she and my wife is a local person, I have to call her aunt, my boyfriend home has three brothers, married two daughters before returning have surnamed Huang , me too. their home with an in-law said the same last name were not on the later family, their family, people do not agree with him with me. Finally, my boyfriend chose the family! nominally separate, but the actual We also have contact with, he later had tuberculosis, then we all go in one side so I did not take care of him, 08 the New Year he married, but we still tangled together, although I also hate him with a do not know woman married, but separated from him every time to be sad, I know he is married so I do not change, but I just can not help! I'm worried. Re: You and many others, in the face of not may have results before the emotion is still persistent, but things are often the result of battered women, men are safe, you do not want to hurt yourself, the only way is to stay away from him.
6. I am a sophomore student He and I are the same class, this semester just placement, he and I were separated. In fact, long time ago I knew he liked me, but only feel, until January, he told me so, I did not agree, nor refused, I was the same as before, and talk to him, nothing changed. But I think I seem to like him, inadvertently, I began to care about him. I have many dreams, that exact point, that is, if all goes well, I'm going to study in Canada in April, and he knows it. I do not know how to face him, I think we should give people a definite answer, maybe I think I better suited to be friends with him, I do not know how to do, I hope you can give me the answer, thank you! Re: the most important thing is honesty between people, you are straightforward and tell her you dream of and development of future trends can be.
7. My husband and I married 3 years and a half, his son is now 4 years old. I love my husband, had chosen him for another reason: he was handsome, ability. This man is relatively safe, because when I was divorced parents as a third party , so I actually have a potential marriage, fear, fear her husband would have an affair. But things have really happened, the first son is 8 months old, when he found him with a small number of girls affair, and later he found the girl was a bad woman to give up .2008, he is more ambiguous relationship with the other students. even said: the threat of divorce, the woman has to break up with him. We both branches because of work, and now he does not return my text messages as long as I would have your head, heart uneasiness. Do you think I save this marriage, there is room for ? I should also struggling to fight on it? Re: marriage patterns between the work of the most vulnerable to betrayal of one of the parties husband and wife thing, but they are often solve the immediate physical needs, generally will not invest real emotion. man the animal itself is Mahogany, and women are sometimes suspicious of the animals. in the face of marriage in times of crisis we are always thinking about how to dig each other, and few to consider how to improve marriage. for the husband and wife to work, to improve relations between the two couples Great way: think of ways to work together or one of his job transferred; with the treachery of their own moral constraints
8. We got married in 2004. Since 2006, my husband and I often quarrel, because he was out most of the time play. go out and play every week to 3,4 days (and his colleagues are). So fight, well done, when every time I take the job when he has an excuse, so there is nothing. Later, I found his cell phone did not let me see (before we used to see each other), and even putting them into the bathroom and .2007, I found him to have a try not to quarrel with him, and his communication, he said some things between them, stressing they are just good friends, I'm sorry he did not do something. when I chose to believe that when the end of .2008, we had a falling frame, these events inexplicable coming in, I had no control, the Cold War to January 6, 2009, I am prepared to talk with him, trying to erase painful. on that day, I looked into their chats, they would have slept! I really collapsed. I have always said to him: because we are both love to get married, experience is too simple, so if he made a mistake, I can forgive him once. premise , do do not deceive me. This thing destroyed my confidence in this period of .07 years of marriage, I want him to break off diplomatic relations with that woman, what he said does not agree that I am suspicious, as if I'm causing trouble. Now, he agreed to break off diplomatic relations, but I do not believe it. even if he and the woman cut off, who knows there is no second third? he said to me, he just left a detour, to I give him a opportunities. I thought for a long time, asking him to sign a guarantee that he would never travel with that woman, nor have other extra-marital affairs and, if violated, he would voluntarily give up all the household property of purification. He agreed, But I'm not sure what it can to ensure that won? If a person a change of heart is the most terrible. I do not want to give up this feeling, but I think he will be uncontrollable and the woman's close, the control is not sad to live. He is now in the trough career, I do not have the heart to trouble him in his most difficult, I can not leave him. But I'm not sure, he is really a change of heart, or because the cause of frustration and do not want marriage re frustrated? Re: Since you do not want to give up this feeling, you have to believe him, because you do not trust his own pain, or in exchange for his departure, the cause of the downturn in the men most in need of their own body when love women care for him, so you have to let go of his good, even better than him when he is more beautiful to do well. As long as you do so, I'm sure he'll always remember your good, and will work with you hand to the old. WARNING: Do not beyond the time to revisit the issues in dispute.
9. I have a daughter, divorced, in children one year old boyfriend to know now almost seven years now, and I than he two years old, had known him, he told me at first sight, but I was just divorced, in order not to delay him, I told him my situation, did not think he was willing to accept me as big as his divorce with children two years of the fact that very happy days with each other in hard contact, the thought that we could marry and live together, but his parents have been against us for so many years together, his mother said to him was upheld, or have my mom take her or his mother in me go, he had no choice. I do not agree to opt out of him, so I dragged between the two nearly seven years, I am suffering, can true love between us. I how to do? Re: Women can not afford the youth is the consumption, the man's blessing on their loved ones can not be betrayed, and 7 years can not be touched by the emotion of her mother, it seems that his mother was bent on the wife does not want you, so You have to quit, do not make things difficult for yourself, and do not make things difficult for the people you love, though do not want to break up the results of each other, but no dubbing is very unfair to the woman, love, learn to give pain to find happiness.
10. I am 25 years old, and her boyfriend fell in love with the past 7 years, 07 years we lived in together after registration, but no wedding, scheduled for the end of this year, married, wedding photos and hotels are now booked a week ago, I found a third party into our lives, all her husband's confession to me. In a period of time there is always a woman to call him, I really could not help but asked a few questions, did not think her husband confessed to me, They are colleagues, she is very good impression after the meeting, I was out of the divorce. but I do not really want a divorce, I want to scare him, and did not expect him angry, and finally evolved to his told me that for so many years he put me in, try to please me. I confess that I anxious personality, temperament stubborn, aggressive, often without taking into account his feelings, that I ignored him, and he said he did not love me I cherish him. Now is not so in love with me, but he can not forget my responsibility, so many years and what we can say that things are transparent, I do not own circle of life, no friends. He also gave up to my own life at home. He is also very painful, he said he would like to free chat with the woman with a very relaxed, but he assured me absolutely no derailment. from his confession to today, I assured him I would change, do the most to be a good wife, but it seems his heart is dead to me. but he is my responsibility to tell him he can not abandon me, so we agreed to continue to live, the wedding was held as usual, but I can not say in his outside life. Re: Since your husband in this kinds of cases, still choose to marry you, that your husband still want you to get rid of some foul trouble himself. woman biggest killer for men is soft, do not care about and support the cause of man, common sense. If you wish to continue your emotion, you must first begin to correct itself, or are married are married to your husband will choose to divorce. After all, every man is reluctant to open eyes to see every day a family and work, which made me feel very happy very practical. but yesterday, I stole her husband opened a chat room, I look at his chat logs, after reading my heart is cold, I did not think her husband would like to looking for lover, chat with other women he speaks with a very ambiguous, very considerate, and they also stole the phone, and her husband said this year to buy a car, such as money on hand next year to be nurturing her, said her husband does not may pay 100% of the love of his wife, to keep the one hand, I just can not believe that such a speaker not for him, which I know in real life, he is completely different in my eyes he is a stable, negative responsibility of men, speak and act very intelligent, he will want to carry me how nurturing lover? in the end, what is the real him? I was scared, (I did not sleep well last night) I should tell him illustrate this matter, or dumb? Re: reality he is the real him, as far as I know, men are basically on the network smart man, and woman on the network are basically silly woman, and even men will the truth lies as a joke. Since you and your husband chat passwords are the same, your husband will not be foolish enough to openly in front of your face and the other woman affair, right? That is only a malicious joke, you should never take it seriously . there is to encounter when a game, not to mention her husband.
12. We recognize that for 14 years, divorced a year ago. and he was penniless when he got married, and even wedding rings are borrowed with, he was a careless man, do not know how considerate care of me, between us often noisy, in the course of his hard work, we have not been effective communication, divorce, he has earned a lot of money, bought a house buy a car. and I just Bedroom living with her daughter's old house in the past. Now he has found me, and I want to remarry, he wanted me to forget his bad, think more of his good, but not an exaggeration to say, really Nothing good memories. I really do not go to a happy life with his faith. But I think the results of his labor did not enjoy a little bit, cheaper another woman, I was not flat, then when there is no such divorce thought. I was afraid with a child, can not find the conditions are good man, how can I do? Re: Your husband did not want to give you, but can not afford to give you all the romantic act of love need money support, so now he can give you, why do not you give yourself a step, and then return to the family?
13. Yesterday was my birthday, but has not had a happy birthday last year, I think, when I just graduated from college, to stay away from her boyfriend of the city to find work, the students boarding house, where I can not contact arrived boyfriend, and his phone has been shut down, then I want to see under his phone list, to see his last and who to contact, and his phone bill so I was shocked, there is a number, text messages are often sent, two days later, my boyfriend finally boot, when I return to the students in the interview on the way home, I heard his voice, I cried in the street, I asked her if he was there, he said no, he was very eager to see me cry, but also came to me and he said he in the cafe two days you have, because the bedroom no power, because angry with me I want to hold back two days. he came to my city to see me, begged me to forgive him, and for a new number that no longer have contact with her. Re: things you put out a year ago, came to not happy just nothing good in the world there is no absolute pure love, can not learn to forget that life is sad life.
14. A year ago I met current boyfriend, who 11 years older than me, have their own The company, divorced with a son, when I choose with him, I do not care about age, do not care that he had a son, as long as he can really treated me like half a year ... we just get along quite emotional development or smooth, can last months, we often order a small matter to fight, (in the company he is my boss), he is very bad temper, and inclined to speak loudly to me, whether official or private matter, regardless of any occasion are (even in the corporate office as well), in order to keep my colleagues joke on the spot I will not argue with him, but I really can not stand his temper ... which, when I take the initiative to say to break up, he was adhering to a ... I do not know what he insisted? my house to do a marriage, he politely refused, I think this tired love life, daily total in the breath, I am 25 years old, and just want to look good people get married, to have a stable life ... I do not want this kind of love and hope in sight and the work does not continue to maintain a happy life! Please tell me how to float in the air out of this day ... . Re: Since you mentioned family marriage, she also hearted rejection, I suggest you leave him, you may now be greedy that he gave you the job, but a helpless woman will not be truly happy , go out and find a new career, maybe you will calm a lot.
15. My husband and I married seven years, and has a son 7 years old. when we got married is because I am younger and naive, character and strong and I love a good fit of anger before, and he entered the marriage hall. Then there are a lot of times we have been arguing and fighting. the second year he was arrested and imprisoned wrong, since I do not know too much about the details of the case . I worked hard for four years so he is to give children a complete family. did not think he came back and I met twice on the noisy side twice, or even without any regret and guilt, in the period he was in prison I was nail in the coffin of his mother. can not think of elbow grease I have no credit it! I do not know what I'm doing wrong? want him to go home this year and good, all good things I say do not listen to his words. I now He really hope to disappointment and even despair, and now I feel that his sympathy and pity, he is now nothing, even the most basic dignity is gone, I am most worried about a child, I clearly know that such marriages No matter how hard I have a man is useless, really painful, the pain I waited 4 years of white!! But the only thing I am pleased that my 4 years of continuous efforts to study and work in fairly satisfied! Reply : You have not been wronged on the whole the happiness you want your child has not been a corresponding father, even to help children find a stepfather, the worst result than this, at least you can get a man's love, leave it, do not continue to waste their hopeless marriage time.
16. my boyfriend for half a year now, He is my 4-year-old, of the many suitors, I give way and he I'm a strong pursuit of, and ultimately chose to be with him. had taken him home, he also had parents like it. his favorite he is also very considerate to me, so less than two months and he secretly lived together , in the last month I had a child for his flow, he was careful to take care of me a few days, the seventh day of may in my abortion, but he betrayed me. he met before his crush on a woman in I know he wanted to pursue the girl before, but the girl was a friend, and now the girl is single, he accompanied the girl for two days. But now I'm with him is always trepidation, fearing that he once again derailed, and he do not take my phone at every turn, he told me loved me, but not as strong. He is still very good to my parents, to accompany my parents to see a doctor to take care of very carefully. He is over thirty people, and But I think he is unstable nature of mind, I know he has about a dozen previous girlfriend, each time because of this reason that broke up, I'm afraid I will be the same as his previous girlfriend, and ultimately split up with him . afraid that after marriage to his heart and mind, will be derailed. so I do not know in the end this should not continue with him, as short-term pain or long pain, select the break up? Re: a man can talk about a dozen girlfriends not married, it is not a woman is wrong, since a dozen other women are able to make a rational choice, why can not it? I am really amazed that young girl, not yet live a few days, put himself to the others, is now the girl is worthless, or I am old, thought can not keep up with the jump?
17. I am 40 years old, workers; 14-year-old son on the third day; husband farmers, is now unemployed . Since last September I found him and a small twelve-year-old woman has been his close ties, their relationship is probably more than a year. I found out later he did not show that the meaning of repentance, we separated the nearly five months. I want to give him enough time for him to think, but, contrary to expectations, their relationship continues unabated. the woman back home this Spring Festival, he may have nowhere to go to the cheek to come back. For children, I compromise, talked to him again. He just silently do not understand his true thoughts, but I think back now, it should be in action to be seen, because the Spring Festival, talking about topics inconvenience, it gave up. Fifth I want to go to work early and my son home, years later, the woman went back to back, he had never come back. I asked him why he did not divorce? agreement had been prepared by me but he would not sign! fear of prosecution for divorce children learn. how can I do? Re: divorce, do not just affect the child for fear of compromise, if you can not negotiate a divorce, it must be through the legal process. because you do everything to find a new love for their own gain time.
18. I fell in love with him 6 years, 6 years, I love my pet he was, He is 28, I was 25, had intended to get married this year, but finally the day in the February 2 completely separated. his mother in his often before whispered that I am not good, not like we have been together. His father, after been ill not move, and what the final say by his mother. In order to get married thing, his family had no other house, after the marriage also lived with his now can not afford, and opened a clothing store there is little profit, think about the future and his mother could not get along well, really decided to separate. I want to know, if he scrape together the money short term will come to me? I know and should not be thought, but not control his heart, from time to time to think of him, remember his words and actions, and his mother, then a sharp pain. Re: matter is the cornerstone of marriage is the protection of married life, you can break up with him because there is no house, he can on the substance of this phenomenon by the disappointment of marriage, even if you how to accept defeat, he can not reach you within a short time to get married need to request , poor couple there's nothing wrong, but you do not want to have that kind of life can only break up. not to mention who your feelings change of heart, but in the secular face of the material we have done a puppet.
19. ex-husband and I married six years, the feelings have always been good and has a lovely son. Although some of his machismo, but I am still a more considerate person, until I discovered he had an affair, he did not take the initiative to me admit mistakes, but turned his mobile phone to blame I know that this practice is despicable, I am disappointed for him, in my insistence, we divorced. After the divorce, I through the efforts of better conditions for a work, I have enough independent conditions. three years later, I did not find a boyfriend,UGG boots, one is not a random, both to ourselves but also to others responsible. There should be said to want him. because his son the reason (along with his son), we keep in constant contact, with his son in first grade now, and to his son counseling so we often meet, but also ease the feelings of many. both parents have hope that we can see in my son's sake compound, in addition to divorce After 3 years, he also remains very concerned about me, my heart more and more toward him. But all along, I can feel cut off from him and she did not like and sometimes when he was texting the mysterious, playing to the phone in front of me did not answer and so on. until one day, I stumbled on him and she is actually at least twice a day between calls and text messages, and called for the My heart is cold again. (I did not go questioned him, because I think I do not have this qualification) I am in pain, remarried so I can let go of it? do not remarry, how can I forget him? Reply: because you do divorce her husband betrayed, when you have had children, and now your husband still contact her, if you remarry, why did they divorce? Now that your husband has no remorse, just do not want your child to find a stepmother, you do not want to choose the nanny in this free, if you just have to divorce to prove you have the marriage is noble, then you must also be 3 years you do not pay to find new happiness, because everything your voluntary. people may sometimes really Fanjian, always have the
20. and he is an alumnus of early, but the intersection has been no, until last year, a classmate took him to see I do not have a boyfriend introduced to me, we met three times during the surface, has been simply to keep the students or friend relationship. do not try to break through. In fact, for me, he is a very suitable to marry. I'm not sure of his ideas, but would like to know how he thinks. He once told me that forced home He married, but he has not met the right, he says that mean I also inappropriate to him? Re: I'm not him, so I do not know what he wants. Perhaps he is also a very reserved person, I suggest you directly through the network to cross-examine all you want to ask a question, if not call the feeling of breaking up as early as possible to introduce the students when you do not have, at best, a strange relationship to restore the original. If he was like you, waiting for the other openings, and are do not take the initiative to speak, is not miss a marriage? If you would rather miss, but also insisted on not ask, I propose to break up.
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